only in hindsight did it occur to me that maybe I didn't want future employers to know so much about my hobbies.
Oddly, and perhaps ironically, it turned out that all my main employers since have been all in on me being fannish and have actively encouraged it. Still, there's no way I could have known that at 19, and it certainly is not a situation I should have assumed.
Also, sympathies on the reincarnated dragon.
Thanks. I don't think he was playing. There were so many issues there that I'm lucky I got out.
I'm sorry about your experience with your "friend." She sounds like a classic bully. It really hurts when people you trust betray that trust, and she definitely was with those games.
Re: Sunshine Challenge ☼ 2019
Date: 2019-07-06 03:13 pm (UTC)Oddly, and perhaps ironically, it turned out that all my main employers since have been all in on me being fannish and have actively encouraged it. Still, there's no way I could have known that at 19, and it certainly is not a situation I should have assumed.
Also, sympathies on the reincarnated dragon.
Thanks. I don't think he was playing. There were so many issues there that I'm lucky I got out.
I'm sorry about your experience with your "friend." She sounds like a classic bully. It really hurts when people you trust betray that trust, and she definitely was with those games.